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Laat hulle dit eers met die etiket dra en knip dit net af as hulle daaroor kla. Ouers word vinnig deur hierdie gedrag ingesuig en sien die probleem dan vooruit nog voor dit werklik daar is. Dis d\u00e1n dat hulle oorbeskermend word, wat die saak eintlik erger maak. Tasdefensiewe kinders het hierdie ervarings nodig, en die geheim l\u00ea in balans. Verstaan dat tassensitiwiteit vir jou kind baie werklik is. Wees sensitief en geduldig, maar moet hulle nie oorbeskerm nie. Moedig jou kind aan om met verskillende teksture te speel of dit aan te raak wanneer hulle gevoer, uitgerus, ontspanne en in \u2019n goeie bui is. Hulle vind hierdie aktiwiteite ekstra moeilik en jy moet hulle dus sagkens aanmoedig. Besef dat klere vir jou kind \u2019n kwessie is en [&hellip;]"}