{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Besige Breintjies","provider_url":"https:\/\/besigebreintjies.co.za\/af","author_name":"Michelle Henningse","author_url":"https:\/\/besigebreintjies.co.za\/af\/author\/michellebesige\/","title":"How to build your child\u2019s self-esteem - Besige Breintjies","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"I2qCi85Gv7\"><a href=\"https:\/\/besigebreintjies.co.za\/af\/how-to-build-your-childs-self-esteem\/\">How to build your child\u2019s self-esteem<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/besigebreintjies.co.za\/af\/how-to-build-your-childs-self-esteem\/embed\/#?secret=I2qCi85Gv7\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;How to build your child\u2019s self-esteem&#8221; &#8212; Besige Breintjies\" data-secret=\"I2qCi85Gv7\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/**\n * WordPress inline HTML embed\n *\n * @since 4.4.0\n * @output wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.js\n *\n * Single line comments should not be used since they will break\n * the script when inlined in get_post_embed_html(), specifically\n * when the comments are not stripped out due to SCRIPT_DEBUG\n * being turned on.\n *\/\n(function ( window, document ) {\n\t'use strict';\n\n\t\/* Abort for ancient browsers. *\/\n\tif ( ! document.querySelector || ! window.addEventListener || typeof URL === 'undefined' ) {\n\t\treturn;\n\t}\n\n\t\/** @namespace wp *\/\n\twindow.wp = window.wp || {};\n\n\t\/* Abort if script was already executed. *\/\n\tif ( !! window.wp.receiveEmbedMessage ) {\n\t\treturn;\n\t}\n\n\t\/**\n\t * Receive embed message.\n\t *\n\t * @param {MessageEvent} e\n\t *\/\n\twindow.wp.receiveEmbedMessage = function( e ) {\n\t\tvar data = e.data;\n\n\t\t\/* Verify shape of message. *\/\n\t\tif (\n\t\t\t! 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They tend to focus on their failures rather than their successes and for this reason they may be reluctant to try new things. How do we, as parents, help build our child\u2019s self-esteem? Encourage them to try new things. Teach them how to do something new by either showing them how to do it, helping them do it or letting them do it for themselves. Teach them new skills such as art, cooking, music or sport. Don\u2019t allow them to be over critical of themselves or others. Children mimic attitudes just as well as they mimic actions, so make positive comments about yourself and others when they are around. Give your child genuine, specific praise that focusses on their efforts. Address them by their name when you give praise. Teach them that it is perfectly okay to make mistakes and that we have to learn from our mistakes to do better next time. Self-esteem grows [&hellip;]"}