{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Besige Breintjies","provider_url":"https:\/\/besigebreintjies.co.za\/af","author_name":"Michelle Henningse","author_url":"https:\/\/besigebreintjies.co.za\/af\/author\/michellebesige\/","title":"Dissipline - Besige Breintjies","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"KW5clH6aQR\"><a href=\"https:\/\/besigebreintjies.co.za\/af\/dissipline\/\">Dissipline<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/besigebreintjies.co.za\/af\/dissipline\/embed\/#?secret=KW5clH6aQR\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Dissipline&#8221; &#8212; Besige Breintjies\" data-secret=\"KW5clH6aQR\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/**\n * WordPress inline HTML embed\n *\n * @since 4.4.0\n * @output wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.js\n *\n * Single line comments should not be used since they will break\n * the script when inlined in get_post_embed_html(), specifically\n * when the comments are not stripped out due to SCRIPT_DEBUG\n * being turned on.\n *\/\n(function ( window, document ) {\n\t'use strict';\n\n\t\/* Abort for ancient browsers. *\/\n\tif ( ! document.querySelector || ! window.addEventListener || typeof URL === 'undefined' ) {\n\t\treturn;\n\t}\n\n\t\/** @namespace wp *\/\n\twindow.wp = window.wp || {};\n\n\t\/* Abort if script was already executed. *\/\n\tif ( !! window.wp.receiveEmbedMessage ) {\n\t\treturn;\n\t}\n\n\t\/**\n\t * Receive embed message.\n\t *\n\t * @param {MessageEvent} e\n\t *\/\n\twindow.wp.receiveEmbedMessage = function( e ) {\n\t\tvar data = e.data;\n\n\t\t\/* Verify shape of message. *\/\n\t\tif (\n\t\t\t! 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Ander ouers sien \u2018n verandering in gedrag na \u2018n paar minute van stiltetyd in die hoek en ander glo weer \u2018kinders is kinders en ons moet hulle laat wees\u2019. Too often we forget that discipline really means to teach, not to punish. A disciple is a student, not a recipient of behavioural consequences. \u2013 Dr Dan Siegel (The Whole-Brain Child). Die manier waarin ouers gedissiplineer was as kind het \u2018n invloed op die manier hoe hulle hul kinders gaan dissiplineer. Deesdae daag kenners ouers uit om hierdie denkwyse te verander en die patroon te breek. Hulle reken dis \u2018n moet \u2013 ons het so groot geword ja, en ons is \u2018normaal\u2019 (soms), maar ons kinders word groot gemaak in \u2018n ander tyd, vir \u2018n ander w\u00eareld. Geweld lei na geweld\u2026 Hoe moet kinders leer om nie maatjies te slaan nie, maar wanneer Mamma of Pappa raadop is draai hulle dan na geweld? Thinking of your child [&hellip;]"}