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</script>https://besigebreintjies.co.za/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/blog_ouerskapstyle-1024x577.png1024577Dit bly maar ‘n ongemaklike onderwerp – veral as mens sterk voel oor jou eie ouerskap styl en keuses. Meestal probeer mense, met goeie intensies, help deur raad te gee of dalk wil jy ander ouers help deur hulle die lig te laat sien wanneer dit kom by dissipline, slaap of roetine – maak nie saak hoe goed dit bedoel word nie, dit lei gewoonlik na ongemaklike situasies. Ek deel ‘n paar wenke van Janet Lansbury, hoe om hierdie situasies te hanteer, vir die beste uitkoms moontlik. Moenie preek of leer nie Soms is dit beter om net stil te bly – dit is moeilik as jou kind in ‘n situasie is en iemand hanteer hulle anders as wat jy verkies. As jou kind se lewe in gevaar is of dit is ‘n etiese verskil, sê ASSEBLIEF iets (indien nodig, skreeu en waarsku) maar as dit iets onskuldig is en iets wat mens kan oorsien vir ‘n paar uur, doen dit. Byvoorbeeld: as jy verkies om nie jou kind voor te skryf gedurende speeltyd nie of julle het ‘n ‘geen voete op die bank’ reël, maar dit is die teenoorgestelde by die persoon by wie julle kuier – besluit of […]